Hope is a Journey….

Making a Difference

5:45 a.m. comes way too early, especially when you were up way too late the night before spending time with some pretty darn amazing individuals.  Ralph and I rolled out of bed like zombies fumbling for our clothes and stumbling to the shower – the BIG DAY was here.  Despite our horrible smelling – sweltering and steamy – cold water with no water pressure – hotel room at the Hilton in Gaithersburg – and the fact that they didn’t have the ‘cash’ to refund us our deposit as we checked out (that they seemed unphased by) – we were excited to break the day open like a much anticipated Christmas present on Christmas morning.  We set out for our half hour trek to the other hotel where our our day was slated to begin.

We arrived at the Marriott in Bethesda in time for breakfast, but had a little snafu with my power chair breaking (but just a bit). After about 20 minutes of Ralph tinkering with it (and saying a few choice words), we were back in business and ready to head to the meeting location. Despite a relatively minor bus glitch, our trek through the scenic roadways was just what we needed to wake up, enjoy the beauty of the day and energize each other for what promised to be a long but rewarding day…

You see…today wasn’t just ANY day…today was a day when nearly 300 people descended upon Capitol Hill in Washington, D.C. and spoke to legislators in one unified voice…and it was heard loud and clear!

Today…we made a difference.

Today…we were “Part of the Cure.”

Senator Barbara Boxer from California introduced Senate Resolution 490 (S. Res. 490) on Monday evening, and Representatives Eshoo from California and Tim Murphy from Pennsylvania launched a Congressional Caucus on Mitochondrial Disease.

Our main goal was not only to ask for support from both the Senate side and the House side, but to also raise awareness about Mitochondrial Disease and broaden their understanding about what day to day life is like for patients not only in their local communities but the nation overall.

Ralph and I were the only 2 representing Massachusetts, but – after having 3 successful meetings for the Immune Deficiency Foundation in March, we knew that what we were asking at these meetings would be well received.  Our legislators have always been very gracious and very supportive of our endeavors and we continue to be incredibly grateful for this.

Senator Brown’s aide, Laura

All 3 of our meetings turned out very positive with the aides feeling that our ‘ask‘ was reasonable – all we needed to do was wait to hear whether or not the legislators would sign on.

Senator Kerry’s Aide, Sasha (yes, an easy name to remember!)

We had a Canadian visitor, Carolyn, join us for our last meeting and I think it was pretty neat for her to even be able to share how Mito has affected her.

We even managed to sneak a little ‘race time’ in between meetings to lighten the mood up a bit!  (Hey…us Mito gals need to have fun too!)

We took a nice ride back to the hotel and check into a MUCH nicer, cleaner, more friendly hotel at the Marriott in Bethesda and then made our way down to the wrap up meeting.

Chuck took a moment to share a few inspirational words – as he always does – and they are always so motivating!

And then Cliff (the man who orchestrated and ran our successful day on the Hill) got up, thanked his fellow staff members for their efforts and encouraged us to continue our work on Facebook, Twitter, Blogs, and in our home states….which *I* fully intend to do once we’re back in MA *AND* once the “Action Alert” links are available (next week…so be on the lookout!).

After our meeting, I got to hang out with some pretty incredible people like the Wilkinson Family.  In 2009, Brittany Wilkinson initiated legislative efforts and legislation was named after her – sadly, she lost her battle with Mitochondrial Disease far too young…but her inspirational legacy lives on even in this Senate Resolution, which I think is pretty awesome.

I even got to sneak in a little bit of time with my far away ‘Mito Sister’ Rachael….

Ralph and I are now up in our hotel room on the 9th floor enjoying a beautiful view – unwinding and relaxing and appreciating the opportunity and honor that we have been blessed with  to be here and represent all who are affected by this disease.

Tomorrow starts a new day – and we are looking forward to sleeping in past 5:45 a.m. AND attending the first day of the United Mitochondrial Disease Foundation’s National Symposium.  It promises to be an incredible experience as it was when I attended in 2009.

I would be remiss if I did not send a HUGE shout out and THANK YOU to my mom, dad, Aunt Louise, niece Brittany and friends Sherrijean and Tracy for stepping up and helping out so Ralph and I would be able to take this trip.  We cannot even begin to express our gratitude.   It was a decision we went back and forth over as it is always hard to leave our munchkins – but we realized that we had a responsibility, not only to our family, but to those who could not make the trip out – we needed to go and be a voice on the Hill.  We also knew that the information at the conference would be valuable and we would be able to take home the things we learned and hopefully utilize this information to help our family and others.

Off to dreamland……

Love and Light,

Stefani

9 Years

9 Years ago this past Monday, life changed for Ralph and I forever.  We welcomed one of the biggest blessings into our lives in the wee hours of the morning of June 11th, 2003.

I could go on and on about all the trials and tribulations our sweet and amazing boy has endured (and actually did in the post I wrote out last night), but instead – I decided I would celebrate the BIG things…

He’s overcome developmental regressions, countless illnesses, physical challenges, and has dodged almost everything but the kitchen sink.

But that’s not what so amazing about Will….

What so amazing about Will is his contagious smile….

His incredible spirit…

His compassion…

His joy…

His laughter…

His positive attitude…

His kindness…

His determination…

His perseverance…

His innocence…

I can’t even begin to list all the ways in which he has changed me and made me a better human being and mother.  While my heart will always be heavy because he has had to deal with more than any child should, he has managed to embrace his light rather than cast it aside.

I look back over the first 2 years of his life and I regret not cherishing the special moments more, but I am eternally grateful for the fact that God gave me the most wonderful son to teach me how to release my expectations and learn to not only cherish the special moments, but to hold steadfast to even the most mundane ones.  It was then – and only then – that I was able to witness the true beauty that was right in front of me.

Expectations are a funny thing…they’re great things to hang your hat on in theory, but in practice…they fail miserably when compared to what reality can hold if you are able to release what you hold so tightly to.

Will is my hero, he is my light, he is my joy, he is my strength and he is my HOPE.  I am blessed beyond measure and count every day as a miracle and a gift because of what he’s taught me in life.  I have found the peace within the storm and the beauty that comes with learning to dance in the rain.  Will taught me that. I thank GOD for Will – God knew that I needed Will.

It’s funny how our children end up really being our teachers.  Humbling, actually.

So here’s to Will…

I love this boy with all my heart and soul and I can’t wait for my ‘teacher’ to show me how to continue to grow as a mother and as a human being.

Happy Birthday my sweet, sweet sunshine!

I love you to the moon and back……

**** Stay tuned for another blog in the next 24 hours as Ralph and I are in Washington, D.C.

We are heading to Capitol Hill for the United Mitochondrial Disease Foundation’s legislative efforts (UDMF) and then will be attending the UMDF’s National Symposium.

10,000 Thanks

I apologize for the delay in posting this blog – life had gotten quite busy in tying up some loose ends and getting ready for our vacation to Myrtle Beach (that blog post will come later this week – jam packed FULL of fun! – but here’s a teaser picture for you!).

So here’s what I MEANT to post a few weeks ago….


I logged into my blog a few weeks back and noticed that I hit a pretty cool milestone!

So, without further delay….

10,000 Views!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

8 Months

35 Posts

35,126 Words

1085 Pictures

927 Followers

112 Comments

Viewed in 104 Different Countries

When I went through the statistics, I couldn’t believe that what started out to be something small – blossomed into something much bigger than anticipated. I am so humbled.

What’s even more surprising is, that –  in less than a month from hitting this milestone, I already have 2,347 additional views!

SO…Here’s a BIG

To everyone who has been reading, sharing, and commenting on my blog.


I promise
to continue to share my world with you…

The amazing moments…

The mundane moments….


The inspiring moments…

The heartbreaking moments…

The exciting moments….

And the darkest moments…

Why, you ask?

Because, in the past 8 months – I have met SO many people through my blog…

SO many who have experienced similar struggles…

or have been inspired by what I’ve written.

I’ve been blessed and encouraged by others through some of the darkest times…

And I have learned so much about ‘living’ through some of my readers and their stories…

While I find great release in writing this blog…

I have also learned so much about who I am, where I stand, the woman/mother/wife/daughter/friend I want to be, the difference I want to make, and the way I want to live my life…

I promise to live a life of purpose…


And Perspective….


Positively living and changing lives every chance I get…

For the truth is that every moment is PRECIOUS not PROMISED….

These next few weeks are going to be extremely busy with catching up from being on vacation for 2 weeks, Will’s 9th birthday (where does the time go?), a trip back to D.C. to lobby for legislation for Mitochondrial Disease Research and a Mito Conference, working on our community garden plot, Father’s Day, finishing up the school year with the kids, running a blood drive, planning the Beer Tasting (September 29th), celebrating my mom & aunt’s birthday, preparing for the 4th of July events for both IDF & UMDF, and a trip to Canobie Lake with NEPIN (New England Primary Immune Network)….and having some extra fun in between ALL of that!

Be on the lookout for quite a few blog posts about our endeavors!

Until then, THANK YOU all again – your support and sharing of my blog means so much to me!

There’s more to come…..

Here’s to 10,000 more views……

Love and Light,

Stefani